Wednesday, 22 February 2012

Celebrate the Love

                                                                                                                  Febraury 12th 2012

It is that time of year again when people are stressed to the maximum and feeling pressured and depressed. That’s right not only is it a feeling for university students who are writing midterms but it is also Valentines Day. It is a holiday meant with good intentions just as Mothers or Fathers Day, meant to show your love and appreciation for you loved one or significant other. However it seems society has taken the pleasure of this celebration to a negative point. If you have someone special in your life great then hopefully you two will be kind and caring but for those who are single, you are not a tragic case and Valentines Day is not meant to be torture and remind you of the fact you might not have found the right person.
           
Instead let us take a different a different perspective on the issue. Valentines Day is a celebration of love so you can share that love with whoever you want. Basically everyday should be treated as Valentines Day but especially on the 14th of February it just makes it official. I personally love this Holiday and always have since I was a little kid. I send my friends cards, emails, messages expressing my feeling towards them and how much they mean to me. It gives us a chance to express our friendship which contains a certain type of love but love none the less. Most likely if they are a good friend they will express it back to you and you will both feel better and in more of a mood for love.
           
Lets not stop there, you can also celebrate your love for your family. They are usually the most important people in your life so tell and show them how much they have done for you or been there for you. It is all about your personal relationships with other people in your life. You can realize that you are never truly alone so celebrate the fact that you are blessed to have such great people surrounding you.

Enjoy your celebration of love.

Toastmasters

                                                                                                             Febraury 10th 2012

Last night I attended Dalhousie’s Toastmasters meeting with 3 other girls from the class. We left from the Mount so had time to discuss our predictions of what was going to happen or really what was toastmaster meeting. It wasn’t what we expected really but it was interesting and a great experience. When we got to the meeting we were a few minutes earlier but it gave us time to get situated. It was a tiny and personal environment, the members knew each other by name and talked about past meetings, but they also made us new comers feel welcome. We all had to stand up and announce who we were, how long we had been attending or titles that were held at meetings as well as our hobbies and interests. Some people had been going for to years some just a few months or if you were like us, it was your first time. They had an agenda and stuck to it so you knew what was happening for the night, it was even divided up into timed sections.

            At the start after introductions there were specific roles given to volunteers. Melissa actually volunteered and got the position of time keeper. Not the exact name but pretty much sums up the purpose of her job. She was in charge of letting people know when they had reached certain amounts of time. For example there were two students who had prepared speeches. They were on a time limit so Melissa had 3 pieces of paper, one was green to show they had met the minimum time necessary, the second was yellow to warn them they were running out of time and the last paper was red to show they had gone over their intended time. It was interesting for one of us to even be given a job just because we were all so new. The other roles included question-master who payed close attention to the presentations and asked questions to the audience that were relevant to the speeches. The finer was in charge of calling people out for being negative or doing something incorrectly, they give the person a 25 cent fine which goes towards the toastmaster meeting funds. The last role which I cannot remember the title of was in charge of catching space fillers. So their job was to make a note of every time the speaker used words such as “uhhh. Uhmm, ahh, like, and” those types of sayings that aren’t necessary. Once all the jobs were given the speeches began.
           
As soon as the first student went up I had butterflies in my stomach for them just because I know how nervous I get and with new people attending the meeting it could add some extra pressure. However the speaker did very well, her speech was a mock trial for her law class so she will actually be presenting something very similar. I thought what a great way to get some practice in where there should be no pressure. The situation changed my mind and became a positive to me, I now saw it as an opportunity to present when it doesn’t count however still receive tips and advice as if it did. Her speech was well done and she kept calm the entire 7 or 8 minutes. As an audience we also got little sheets to make notes and helpful tips which would be given to the speakers anonymously.

The second presentation was not as intriguing to me just because of the topic. Now I could barely understand half of the law terms and sections of the Charter but was able to stay more focused and enjoyed it more then this speech. The student did a speech on how to do a great speech. It was on PowerPoint which usually having visuals is a good way to engage your audience however it just seemed pointless to me, although he was a good speaker I became uninterested in what he was saying because it had no purpose.

We were then given a break to get up and mingle there were a few snack items, it was a nice way to make everyone a bit more comfortable before the next activity. I  personally thought I was going to be like a fly on the wall at this meeting, I did not do my homework and see what a toastmaster meeting entailed. However just my luck that was not the case, the next activity was meant for everyone to participate. Each person went up to the front of the room and were given a question, you just had to give your answer and explain. Seemed fairly simple but some of the questions were tough especially when you were suppose to talk about the question for at least 2 minutes. My palms were sweaty when my turn approached and I was the first out of the Mount girls to go but I did my best and without the blinding lights and camera it was more relaxing then anticipated. My question was “What is your dream job and why?”, my response was of course being a model. I stated the pros and cons of the industry as well as personally. I was satisfied with my response and for the rest for the rest of the time just enjoyed the improve of others.

At the end they wrapped it up with the discussion of the job roles.  They stated times, questions, comments, criticism and the fines. The fines were actually pretty funny, like I got one for saying I was too tall to be a model, and 2 other girls both got fined from the Mount. We did our best and were surprised we had to get up and speak in the first place so overall I was pleased with the outcome and learned some new skills to apply to my next presentation.

Chain Reactions

                                                                                                                     Febraury 8th 2012

Over the past few weeks there have been some major changes in my work place. I work retail at a mall, where the company owns a chain of other stores as well throughout Nova Scotia and Canada. Last week our Head Office decided to combine our departments however with this change left room for only one district manager so my company’s district manger was let go in an unprofessional manner. The head offices started making some nasty changes and with this bus strike the schedule they were making was not easy for most to adapt too. Instead of building a bigger and stronger team, they broke up smaller ones and destroyed them.
           
This took place on a Thursday, Friday afternoon we were all notified about the changes that were made and intended to be implemented. It was chaos because they cut hours and some employees were not getting enough hours and able to make their regular weeks pay. In protest since it seems to be contagious in Halifax right now, the entire staff at one of our MicMac Mall locations all quit on Saturday. The manager was on good terms with our District manager and when she heard what happened and what they were planning on doing she quit and convinced her staff to quit as well.
           
However this chain reaction did not stop there, on Monday my manager at my store location quit because she was friends with the DM even outside the work place and with the strict changes was unable to provide what they needed so returned her keys and has left us to deal with the rest of the week on our own. So our assistant manager was left with the responsibilities of our manager. She felt out of control and too much stress so she put her 2 weeks in on Tuesday. This chain reaction is damaging to a company’s reputation. I have been employed there for over almost 3 years and never seen it get to this point.
           
It really demonstrates that team work and motivation are key to being successful as well as being respectful and cooperating with your employees. Sometimes changes are necessary in order to get further in business but the only way you can get farther is if your team is all on board. Everyone has to be on the same page and have the same goals for them to be achieved.
           
So a word of concern, please talk with your employees or team before making any major decisions. You never know, your one decision may cause an unwanted and damaging chain reaction that could put you in a tricky situation.

Break Time is Over

             I would like to take this chance to apologize for not posting my blogs the past few weeks. I have written them however I have not had the time to go through them for the presentation aspects. I have been writing down what has been happening in my life though, on the brief chances I had gotten so I’m going to post them all at once I’ll just put the dates at the start so you can catch up. It has just been such a crazy time with midterms, tests, projects and assignments, I know that is no excuse for neglecting my blog because it’s part of the university life.
            Being first year though I wouldn’t say is the hardest but is one of the biggest adjustments. It has made me much more independent because the responsibility is just on me to get my work done same as they would expect with a job. I just realized I wasn’t keeping up on some of the work that needed to get done, so I’m grateful for reading week. It has given me the opportunity to catch up and prepare for the semester, which I desperately needed. Although it has been great catching up with my friends who came home, I needed time to get myself organized and since I’m not going anywheres exciting this is my chance.
           
            I decided to write down everything that needed to be accomplished this week and dedicated a course to each day. I know it does not sound that fun but it has been productive and I really have no option if I want to finish everything. Plus it helps my school work situation having no car during the days. My brother and I share a car and usually it works out great because he attends NSCC which is ten minutes from the Mount. This week however he has class while I am on my break, his break does not occur until March since he attends collage not university. I am not complaining though, because with this bus strike I do a lot of driving, and mostly not even for myself so this gives me the chance to do my work and have my “Me Time” which is always nice since it is so rare.
          
          Anyways sorry for the delay but I have at least gotten caught up in one subject, hope you're all enjoying your break so far!